when you are sorrowful look again in your heart, and you shall see that in truth you are weeping for that which has been your delight.--kahlil gibran
悲伤时，请再审视你的心灵。你就会看到自己为之哭泣的，其实是逝去的快乐。
while grief is fresh, every attempt to divert only irritates. you must wait till it be digested, and then amusement will dissipate the remains of it. --samuel johnson
当悲伤刚刚来临，任何控制它的念头都只带来更多泪水;你要静候它的逝去，再用欢乐的力量将它驱散。
give sorrow words; the grief that does not speak whispers the o'er-fraught heart and bids it break. --william shakespeare
悲伤若不说出嘴. 就会向负荷过重的心窃窃私语而令其破碎。——莎士比亚《麦克白》
even hundredfold grief is divisible by love. --terri guillemets
再大的悲伤也会被爱驱散。
sorrow makes us all children again - destroys all differences of intellect. the wisest know nothing. --ralph waldo emerson
悲伤把我们都变回小孩——它击碎了智慧带来的不同，即使最聪明的人也无法幸免。
grief is itself a m